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"He told me he deleted the app. His friend just sent me a screenshot of his profile. Active. Updated 2 hours ago."
412 women voted
"UPDATE: I showed up at the party in my red dress and what happened next had the whole group chat screaming..."
301 women reacted
"6 months ago I was crying over a man who didn't save my number under my real name. Today: new job, new man, new me."
1,247 women in challenge
POLL: "₦500K man who splits the bill vs ₦150K man who always pays?" — 66% chose the ₦150K man.
823 women voted
"NOK by Alara — bring him here on the 3rd date when you need to see if he's actually serious." ⭐ 4.7
23 reviews · Lagos
🕶️ Anonymous: "I found out my boyfriend of 2 years has been sending money to his ex every single month. What do I do?"
189 sisters responded
"He told me he deleted the app. His friend just sent me a screenshot of his profile. Active. Updated 2 hours ago."
412 women voted
"UPDATE: I showed up at the party in my red dress and what happened next had the whole group chat screaming..."
301 women reacted
"6 months ago I was crying over a man who didn't save my number under my real name. Today: new job, new man, new me."
1,247 women in challenge
POLL: "₦500K man who splits the bill vs ₦150K man who always pays?" — 66% chose the ₦150K man.
823 women voted
"NOK by Alara — bring him here on the 3rd date when you need to see if he's actually serious." ⭐ 4.7
23 reviews · Lagos
🕶️ Anonymous: "I found out my boyfriend of 2 years has been sending money to his ex every single month. What do I do?"
189 sisters responded
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"He saved my number as Gym. Is this a 🚩?"
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"Would you date a man who still lives with his mum at 32?"
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he literally saved my number as 'gym girl' and thought i'd never find out. his other girlfriend showed me the contact list 😭 i'm not even shocked anymore. am i the only one this happens to??
1,247 women voted
ok sis i NEED to update y'all. i posted here crying 2 weeks ago about the breakup. today i got the promotion, signed the lease, and deleted his number. literally shaking rn 👑 thank you to every single woman who replied to that post
POLL: he asked me to split the ₦85,000 dinner bill on our FIRST DATE. is this the new normal or am i tripping??? he had the nerve to say 'equality'. babe i barely know you 😤
3,421 women voted
day 30 of the glow-up challenge. i left him on day 4. found a therapist on day 8. gym from day 12. today is day 30 and im literally not the same person. the woman who posted on day 1 would not recognise me. thank you to everyone in this lounge who kept me going 🍷
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What is TeaSpill?
The tea spill app built for women's dating safety.
TeaSpill is the women-only anonymous dating safety app where women share dating red flags, relationship tea, and real advice — completely anonymously. With over 12,000 verified members across 156 cities, it's the largest private lounge of its kind.
Unlike “Are We Dating the Same Guy” Facebook groups, TeaSpill is a dedicated app with structured rooms, anonymous posting by default, a community voting system, and zero connection to your real identity. No name. No face. No trace.
Women use TeaSpill to share dating red flags, get anonymous dating advice, run informal background checks on men through community knowledge, spot catfishing patterns, and support each other through breakups, glow-ups, and everything in between.
Key Features
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Red Flag Voting
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