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TeaSpill is a women-only anonymous social app focused on dating safety, red flag detection, and community support. Women post situations, vote on each other's red flags, share experiences, and support each other — all anonymously, without real names.

Yes. TeaSpill is completely free to join and use. There are no paywalls, no subscription fees, and no premium tiers for basic access. The core community — posting, voting, reading, and all six rooms — is free.

No. TeaSpill does not use invite codes or a referral system. You can sign up directly at teaspill.co with just your phone number. Access is immediate.

No. There is no waitlist. Sign-up is open and instant. Visit teaspill.co, verify your phone number, and you're in.

Visit teaspill.co on any browser. Enter your phone number. Receive a verification SMS. Enter the code. Choose your persona. Select your vibes. You're in the lounge. The whole process takes under 30 seconds.

Not necessarily. TeaSpill is a Progressive Web App (PWA) that runs directly in your browser on any device. You can also add it to your phone's home screen for a native app-like experience without going through an app store.

Yes. TeaSpill works on Safari on iPhone. You can use it in-browser or add it to your home screen via the Share menu → 'Add to Home Screen' for an app-like experience.

Yes. TeaSpill works on Chrome and other browsers on Android. You can install it as a PWA via the browser menu → 'Add to Home Screen' or 'Install App'.

TeaSpill works globally. The most active communities are in Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana, South Africa, the UK, USA, Canada, and Australia — but women from any country can join and participate.

Yes. Your real name is never collected, displayed, or stored. You choose a persona and interact through that persona. Other users never see your real identity, phone number, or location.

Your phone number is used only for verification at sign-up to confirm you are a real person. It is never visible to other users, never shared with third parties, and never used for marketing.

Yes. TeaSpill has three safety layers: women-only verified access (phone verification), full anonymity (no real names), and community moderation (the community flags and removes posts that violate standards). The platform is specifically designed to be a safe space.

TeaSpill uses phone verification to confirm real humans and a community trust model. The verification process and community reporting system together maintain the women-only environment.

No. TeaSpill is a women-only platform. The verification and community moderation systems are designed to maintain this.

Posts are anonymous — your persona, not your real identity, is attached to them. TeaSpill does not display identifying information on posts and the platform is designed to make posts non-identifiable to other users.

Yes. You can delete your own posts at any time from within the app.

No. TeaSpill does not sell user data to third parties. Your phone number is used only for verification. See the full privacy policy at teaspill.co/privacy.

Over 12,000 verified women across 156+ cities. The community grows daily through word-of-mouth and organic referrals from women who've found it useful.

There are six rooms: Red Flag Lounge (post situations for voting), The Spill Room (share stories and experiences), Glow-Up Corner (post-breakup support and progress), Hot Takes (opinions and dating discourse), Date Spots (city-specific recommendations), and Sister Circle (general support and connection).

The Red Flag Lounge is TeaSpill's core feature. You post a situation anonymously — describing a man's behaviour — and the community votes red flag, yellow flag, or green flag. The result is a live percentage that updates as votes come in.

Red flag = this behaviour is genuinely dangerous or unacceptable, leave. Yellow flag = proceed with caution, more information needed. Green flag = normal behaviour, your concern may be unfounded. Votes display as live percentages.

Based on follow-up UPDATE posts from original posters, TeaSpill's community voted red flag on situations that turned out to be genuinely harmful 89% of the time by the poster's own account.

When something has progressed since your original post, you can post an UPDATE. All women who reacted to your original post receive a notification. Updates close the loop — both for you and for the community — and are how TeaSpill tracks outcome accuracy.

The Glow-Up Corner is a room for post-breakup transformation. Women share their progress, milestones, and wins after leaving difficult situations. It's part accountability, part celebration, and part collective cheerleading.

Sister Circle is the general support room — not dating-specific. It's where women connect, ask for advice on non-dating situations, celebrate wins, and build community beyond the red flag context.

Hot Takes is the discourse room. Controversial opinions on dating, relationships, men, society — all submitted anonymously for the community to weigh in on. Fast-moving, often funny, always honest.

Date Spots is where women share city-specific recommendations — places that are good (or not) for dates, with community ratings. Useful for planning, and for knowing what kind of man suggests which kind of venue.

Describe the specific behaviour (not your interpretation of it), include a rough timeline, mention any explanations he gave you, and add what you've been telling yourself to justify it. The more specific, the more accurate the vote.

Active posts typically receive their first votes within minutes. High-engagement posts can get hundreds of votes within a few hours. The feed moves quickly.

Yes. Voting on others' posts is one of the most valuable things you can do in the community. Your vote contributes to the collective accuracy that makes the system work.

There are daily posting limits to maintain feed quality, but most women find this more than sufficient for regular use.

Yes. Each post has a comment thread where women can add context, share similar experiences, or provide additional perspective beyond their vote.

Share Cards are auto-generated graphics showing your post and its vote results that you can share externally (to close friends or social media) without revealing the community or your identity. They look like app screenshots.

You can post an UPDATE clarifying what actually happened. The community is designed for human complexity — situations evolve, context changes, and sometimes more information changes the picture. Updates are celebrated, not shamed.

There are four: Spiller (you have stories to tell), Red Flag Detector (you have a gift for pattern recognition), Glow-Up Queen (you're in post-breakup transformation), and Listener (you're here to support others). You choose one at sign-up and can change it later.

No. All personas have access to all rooms and all features. Your persona is primarily how you present yourself and how the community understands your perspective.

Yes. You can update your persona at any time in your profile settings.

Common fixes: hard-refresh the page (hold Shift + reload), clear your browser cache, try a different browser, or check your internet connection. If the app was recently updated, the cached version may conflict with the new version.

Open teaspill.co in Safari. Tap the Share button (box with arrow). Scroll down and tap 'Add to Home Screen'. Tap 'Add'. The TeaSpill icon will appear on your home screen.

Open teaspill.co in Chrome. Tap the three-dot menu. Tap 'Add to Home Screen' or 'Install App'. Confirm. The app will appear in your app drawer and home screen.

Basic browsing of cached content may work offline, but posting, voting, and real-time feed updates require an internet connection.

Chrome, Safari, Firefox, and Edge are all fully supported. For the best PWA experience, Chrome on Android and Safari on iPhone are recommended.

In your browser, allow notifications when prompted, or go to your browser settings → Site Settings → teaspill.co → Notifications → Allow. You'll receive notifications for UPDATE posts on situations you've voted on.

Go to your profile settings. Scroll to the bottom. Select 'Delete Account'. Confirm. Your account, posts, and associated data will be removed. This is irreversible.

Yes. Simply stop using the app. There is no activity requirement and no penalty for inactivity. Your account remains exactly as you left it when you return.

Your posts become anonymous — they are no longer associated with your persona, though the content may remain visible without attribution as part of the community record.

No. TeaSpill is a separate, independent platform. It is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or related to the Tea dating app. TeaSpill is specifically built as a women-only community safety tool.

AWDTSG operates through Facebook groups — public identity, no anonymity, geographically fragmented. TeaSpill is a dedicated app: fully anonymous, structured rooms, community-wide reach, and a formal voting system. See the full comparison at /blog/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-app.

Tap the three-dot menu on any post and select 'Report'. Choose the violation category. The moderation team reviews flagged posts. High-confidence community reports result in fast removal.

Yes. TeaSpill maintains accounts on Instagram and TikTok for community content, announcements, and viral share cards. Links are available in the app.